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NHS Walk In Centre Didn’t Know How To Use Nebuliser

Posted on 24th August 2012 in Asthma/ doctors/ NHS

I sat in the waiting room of an NHS walk in centre this week and watched as a frightening series of events played out in front of me.

It was the usual scenario; I’d been there for 20 minutes, constantly checking my watch as minutes ticked by knowing that I was getting later and later for work, knowing that although I was next to be seen it had been 15 minutes since the last patient had left and yet the doctor hadn’t called anyone else.

Then a woman and young lad came in went up the desk, the woman was obviously struggling for breath and the lad had soaking wet hair. My mind pictured the scene at their house that morning with mum feeling unwell but still frantically trying to get her son showered before heading off to seek help. The receptionist asked her name, she couldn’t say it so the boy said it for her. She was then given a form to complete which she did before sitting in the nearest chair.

I was sat behind them. She was heaving for breath. The boy kept looking at her, “are you alright mummy?” he asked quietly. The mum gave him a hug and a lovely smile then turned and gasped for breath. A man and young girl came in and sat with them, I felt immediately relieved as I’d been worried that her and the boy were here on their own.

I checked the time on my phone and rummaged in my bag for something then it occurred to me that the lady had now been sitting for over 5 minutes – struggling to breathe. Why hadn’t she been seen immediately?!

I asked the man if his wife was asthmatic and needing a nebuliser? He said yes. I said, sorry to interfere but it might be worth asking the receptionist to ring through to the doctor as he hasn’t called in any patients for ages. He asked the receptionist and she rang through to the doctor.

Five more minutes past. The mum’s breathing was getting more and more laboured, the little girl was crying and the boy was determinedly trying not to. He asked his mum again if she was alright and she gave him that same, wonderful, brave smile. Except that this time when she turned away there were silent tears streaming down her face.

My eyes prickled with tears and I had to step outside to get a grip. There is a shop opposite so I went in and bought some water for myself and a drink for the children.

The mum had finally gone in with the doctor when I got back so I gave the drink to the dad and said it might help distract the children. They both had some and then the little girl clutched the cold bottle against herself.

The man told me they were on holiday here and hadn’t known where else to go. We chatted for a bit as it turned out that they lived not far from where I’ve just moved. Small world and all that. The children started to calm down and chatted about their holiday.

About 5 minutes later the mum came bursting through the doors followed by the doctor. She was crying and really struggling to walk and breath. The man jumped up ‘What’s wrong?’ he asked her, she angrily brushed him off and went outside.

“I can’t treat her” said the doctor “you’ll have to phone an ambulance”

The whole waiting room looked on in stunned silence.

The children were now both crying.

I spoke to the doctor, “She just needs a nebuliser,” I said, “you must have one here surely?”

“We don’t have one.” he said.

I looked at the receptionist. “We do have one.” she said.

“I don’t know how it works” said the doctor “and the nurse isn’t here.”

So we now had a desperately ill lady, the thing she needed to get better and a doctor who didn’t know how to use it.

The man got his wife back in from outside and got her to sit down again and shouted for the receptionist to call an ambulance, which she did. The doctor asked her to come and lie down in his room, she got really agitated and struggled to say “No!”, the man pleaded with her.

“Is mummy going to be ok daddy?” said the little boy between sobs.

Again I had to step outside. I don’t cry especially easily but this was breaking my heart. I pulled myself back together and went back inside.

The receptionist and the doctor were talking to the couple, trying to convince them that they’d found someone who knew how to use the nebuliser. The woman was violently shaking her head, clearly not feeling she could trust the treatment. It turned out that they’d found some oxygen and they wanted her to use that. After much discussion the doctor said “So she is refusing my treatment, ok.” and went to walk back to his room “No, the man cried, you aren’t able to treat her, there’s a difference! You don’t know how to use the machine and she doesn’t feel confident that you can help her, we’ll wait for the ambulance.” The doctor repeated again, “She is refusing my treatment”. Call me cynical but it felt like it was for the benefit of covering himself, we’d all witnessed the fact that he hadn’t been able to treat her.

The man asked the receptionist to chase up the ambulance, he asked me how far away A&E was, I told him and it was obvious the ambulance should have been here by now. The woman’s breathing was so bad now that she finally agreed to go and lay down and receive oxygen. The receptionist came off the phone and said quietly to the man that there’d been a problem with the ambulance and that another one should be here within 5 minutes.

He looked frantic. He ruffled the boys hair and went off to sit with his wife.

The children were sitting huddled together on their own, they had been 4 chairs apart but were now next to each other. I figured that I wasn’t going to have time to be seen today but didn’t want to leave the children on their own in there waiting.

The boy turned round and asked my how long it would take for the ambulance to get here. I glanced at the clock, it had already been 15 minutes. “Well,” I said, as I wiped away a tear and tried to control my voice “the A&E department is about 20 minutes away from here, so they should be here really soon.” We then chatted about his holiday and what they’d been up to, it turns out he was almost exactly 1 year younger than my youngest and his sister was 6. He started telling me about their morning then added that they hadn’t had time for breakfast. I searched through my bag and found a bag of chocolate animals (there are benefits to being a mum!) which they then shared.

Finally, finally, the ambulance appeared and we all breathed a sigh of relief. I was getting ready to leave when the man burst back into the reception area looking livid. “The paramedics have found your nebuliser,” he said loudly to the receptionist “they want to know where exactly the medicine is that should be with it!” I watched in disbelief as it took a further five minutes for a key to the medicine cabinet to be found.

It took 45 minutes from walking through the door to the ambulance arriving yet the means to treat the lady had been on the premises the whole time.

This is the same health centre who wouldn’t send a doctor out to treat a patient who was having a heart attack in the car park. That man sadly died:

I hope they will learn from this and immediately retrain all relevant staff in the use of nebulisers. My son has asthma, would he be able to last 45 minutes without treatment?

M is for… MADs!

Posted on 25th April 2010 in adultery/ benefits/ Blog/ caffe nero/ cats/ Cattery/ child/ Christopher Biggins/ coffee/ cream/ Cry/ customer service/ debt/ divorce/ doctors/ eczema/ Elvis/ Feral/ guarantor/ health/ house/ Itchy & Scratchy/ James Blunt/ Kreativ Blogger/ MADs/ Rihanna/ self esteem/ skin/ son/ starbucks/ steroids/ Take That/ Titanic/ Twitter/ Vets/ writing workshop

Blimey O’reily my name has popped up in the MADs list!

I wonder if it was my rants about coffee and customer service?

My frustration over my son’s battle with eczema?

My honest account of my recovery after the breakdown of my marriage?

Maybe it was learning that Dermot O’leary used to lay on my desk?

My tale of a random act of kindness?

Maybe someone liked reading about my cats Elvis and Maisy?

I doubt it was my infinite playlist….

Whatever it was I am very grateful to Twitter and the blogging world because it is really fun to share experiences with people, I’ve been reduced to tears (both of sadness and laughter) from other peoples blogs and I know I don’t stand a hope of winning with my 7 posts, but it is still pretty cool to take part!

If you would like to vote for me – I’d be delighted! Just click here and then enter my blog name into the areas where you’d like to nominate.


I is for… The Itchy & Scratchy Show

Posted on 13th April 2010 in cats/ child/ cream/ doctors/ eczema/ health/ Itchy & Scratchy/ oil/ skin/ son/ steroids

The Itchy & Scratchy Show……

My oldest son has had eczema for the whole of his life – 10 years. Today’s visit to the doctor has prompted me to write this blog as I feel the need to offload a little about how frustrated I am and how much of a failure I feel for not being able to save him from the pain, discomfort, embarrassment and distress he has to endure.

I include the word embarrassment in that list because unfortunately he does have children ask him if it is ‘catching’ and often gets comments about his appearance if his skin is particularly bad. When he tells me about these things I have to be very grown up and not ask for the child’s name so that I can pop round and ‘educate’ them a little…

I first noticed it after bathing him in the gorgeous smelling Johnson’s products that I had so coveted during my pregnancy. I so longed to bath my baby in those heavenly scented bubbles, then oil him and talc him! Sadly after a dip in the good stuff his skin was rough and red – where was my ‘smooth as a baby’s bum’ baby? I know it is incredibly selfish but I have to admit I felt a bit cheated!

I saw several health visitors for routine checks and they all said it was infantile eczema and that he would grow out of it.

I have seen countless GPs, dermatologists and have had a private appointment with a Paediatric allergy specialist. Everyone seems to try and treat his symptoms without trying to work out what the triggers are. It seems crazy to me to keep throwing medicine at him when if we could eliminate at least some of the triggers then surely he wouldn’t have the symptoms in the first place?

Where we’ve seen an immediate reaction we then try to avoid those things in the future. For example: ketchup; juice; apples; cut grass; dogs; sweets; bath products; soap; baked beans etc etc

Extra frustratingly, my sons dad (my ex husband) has a very cavalier attitude to the eczema and often tells my son that ‘mummy makes it worse by not letting you have things’ and, my personal favourite, ‘you’ll grow out of it when you are 7′. My son believed him. He was devastated after his 7th birthday when it didn’t go.

We saw the paediatric allergy specialist using private health care and he said the cause was Oral Allergy Syndrome and gave us a huge list of things which ‘could’ trigger the flare ups. But he stressed that not all of the things would. I asked if my son could have allergy tests (this was a private consultation after all so not bound but NHS financial limits) but he said it was impossible to just test for random things. For example if my son eats an apple, he has an immediate flare up and sometimes his lips even blister, so the doctor said he could test for allergy to apples as that was a specific thing…. Forgive me for questioning a man who has had many, many years of studying, training and experience – but what is the point in that?

You aren’t meant to use steroid creams for longer than 7 days at a time. I have said to every doctor I’ve seen that he uses steroid creams EVERYDAY. They all take one look at him and say ‘but how bad would he be if you didn’t?’

So, after today’s visit to the GP (who is lovely, and very understanding) we have hydrocortisone for his face, betnovate for his body, lipobase for everywhere, aveeno bath oil, a peak flow meter, nedocromil eye drops, sodium cromoglicate nasal spray, cetirizine antihistamine and montelukast tablets…

And of course Medised for when it all gets too much.

Sorry for such a downhearted blog, there wasn’t really a way to happy it up.

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